What’s happening?

an elopement celebration! we'd love to celebrate our new chapter with our most cherished loved ones--I.e., you!

we'll start with a dinner party at friends & family in Oakland.  Immediately following, we’ll walk around the corner for dancing and more debauchery at Thee Stork Club.

Look and feel your best--We’re talking hot hawt haught, baby!

Need an excuse to try something bold? Now is the time! You won’t be the most outrageous person there (we promise).  

If you’d like to dress to theme, here is some rough inspiration.

If you’re way too busy to go all out (we get it, don't you even worry), just wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident.   

No rules, anything goes (all white is totally fine). The bride is not wearing white and neither is Danielle.

Just, please, no literal costumeS.

What SHOULD i wear?

what’s the vibe?

This is a rowdy high/low night of degeneracy.  

here are some images that might help communicate the attitude of the night.

what will i eat?

Drinks, snacks, and full dinner will be served at friends & FAMILY. Late night snacks will also be available at Thee Stork Club.

where should i sleep?

THERE ARE MANY convenient HOTEL OPTIONS IN OAKLAND AND SF.  please visit our travel page TO SEE some of our RECOMMENDATIONS.

when’s it happening?

saturday, July 26, 2025. 

Please arrive at Friends & Family at 6:30 pm. The party at THEE Stork Club will go late late.

your worst behavior. 

(and, if you want to bring additional guests or children, just TALK TO US FIRst please).

what should i bring?

What else?

I.E., DO WE have a collection of mostly selfies that memorializes our once-in-a-lifetime love?

yes!! and in chronological order.